Trying To Conceive in the 21st Century
Its a reality that some women find it easier to conceive than others, lots of factors account for that.
But right now, in this century its much easier because there are lots of options, solutions that have been offered that have worked for lots of people.
Some of the things to consider when you are trying to conceive is:
1) Your state of mind, you are not a failure because you can't have kids, everybody is made different and it doesn't help your chances when you compare yourself with others and feel bad. Focus on being positive and grateful.
2) Work with your partner, there is no need throwing blames, its better to work together, don't be ashamed to see a specialist together, monitor your ovulation together using an ovulation kit, take prenatal vitamins, eat healthy and research, especially if you are aware of where the problem is from.
3)Frequent sex, boosts pregnancy chances especially during ovulation or some women discover that they ovulate during their mensuration, so always use your ovulation kit and see your doctor to evaluate you and your spouse.
4) Investigations, Medications are necessary solutions to issues regarding TTC. At the same time, not all will need investigations, and medications. Just that they are not getting it right...even though it seems a simple task for couples to get intimate. There are loads of books out there that can help you achieve pregnancy just by mere reading and knowing some basic facts on how to go about things. My advice is always try to do some personal study on TTC. If you are well informed, you might finally get it right. Wishing everyone would adopt a new attitude and approach to TTC.
5) Other options include IVF, Fertility drugs, adoption etc
Having a baby is a every parents dream, the process of actualizing this dream may vary from couple to couple.
Personal Writeup with some parts culled.

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